Stephen Bday 25-02-2010

It's Stephen Lim's 22nd birthday!!! All of us squeeze out a lil time just wanna attend his birthday bash at Le Bar Antigravity. have been so long since all gather together. Although not all are present but still make his celebration fun. When I just reach not even half an hour , I already heard Stephen had alread drunk and sleeping at the bar. What the hell man , it is only like 11pm lo...

Although  we all now have our own stuff to busy with , but definately the friendship bond is still there. I really appreciate that.

The same old people like Steven Sim, Desmond Ong, Ivan Tay, Wilson Lim and blah blah blah were there too.

The don't know which black hearted kind soul mix a damn damn power waterfall for the birthday boy. Waterfall or Overflow??? hahahha This fellow took 5mins to finish the drink , damn LO SO and slow. He didn't finish the drink by himself man , our kind soul Ivan Tay help him to finish like3/4 of the glass. well done!!!

Stephen face looks like burning with fire on his skin, hahaha ... damn bloody mary red.. You can nv imagine how the red is , let me show u the picture of him... LOL

Happy Birthday Bro!!!

Rayius admitted to kk hospital 15 Feb 2010

This 2nd day of Chinese new year, we had our reunion dinner with my beloved family and lovely grandma join us too!!! We realy had fun and the food is damn yummy too..

But...

Rayius is falling sick with cough and flu during this Chinese new year.

After our dinner end, I realise something wrong with Rayius. He is coughing even badly and he start shivering with fever. I was so shock and ask shan(my sister) to send him to the 24 hrs clinic with me. The doctor say is normal cough and his breathing make noise is bcos his phlegm, nothing serious. This 10 minutes consultation plus some medicine cost me hundred over dollar. Darn!

In the middle of the night 4am, Rayius started to breath very hard , he hold both of his fist so hard to fight for air, just like what I did during my asthma attack. He kept telling me "mummy 很。很。。很辛苦， 我很难呼。。呼吸". He can breath and speak well, I was so lost and quickly had a fast change and send him to KK hospital.

The doctor at A&E departtment gave him Ventolin and oxygen for a few rounds. She said if the noise in his breathing persist then he will need to be admitted. Until around 7 plus , still cannot see any improvement from baby and the doctor transfer him to the ward.

Doctor said that is a lung infection, the phlegm in his body flow into his lung and cause his breathing difficulty and probably he got his asthmatic from me, I'm damn guilty when I heard this , I had pass this shit to baby, baby I'm sorry, very very sorry :(

Well we had a 3days 2night stay in KK hospital during our Chinese New Year, what an experience man.. haha

Luckily baby is recovering and fine now. He is back to normal and cheerful life and is attending school too... Yeah!

Baby, mummy love you muackx!

This is what we call true love in this earth.....

Happen to see this post in facebook and youtube. My tears roll down while watching this video clip, this is damn saddening. I can totally understand how the 'groom to be' feel. I think such case is rare in this world, so treasure the one you love, because we wouldn't know what will happen everyday. Let's give us our moral support and a big thumbs up to the groom. JIA YOU!!!



This is roughly what happen to the 'bride to be' ......



昨天是立春，今年开春第一天，也是他迎娶她进门的大喜日子。当他执子之手时，心爱的她早已躺入冰冷的棺木里，身旁亲友本该有的欢声笑语化作哭声泪水。曾经幻想过无数遍的婚礼场面终于如愿以偿，他想到了豪华敞篷婚车和美丽的花束、洁白的婚纱，没想到的是梦想中的婚礼，竟是在殡仪馆进行。相爱的人早已生死相隔

新郎庄华贵是个福清小伙子，在漳州从事广告业。2008年3月结识了家住漳州平和县的卢燕娥。那年，他24岁，她20岁。一个月后他们就确定了恋爱关系，2009年12月2日，登记结婚，今年2月4日，也就是昨天，本是他们大喜的日子。

然而，在1月27日，却成了永别。当日，两名劫匪以租房为名，实施入室抢劫，并连捅了燕娥8刀，燕娥再也没有醒来，此时，离她出嫁仅剩8天，而她，还不满22周岁，但婚礼在新郎的坚持下依然准时举行……

→婚礼前夕 新郎守着照片熬一夜

2月3日晚上，婚礼前夜，他在婚房里整理着第二天要用的东西。新房里，精心挑选的婚纱照靠在床头没挂上墙，房间里一片孤寂，没有蜡烛，没有喜糖，没有红色的窗花……

“这女人值得我一辈子去爱。”他说出这句话时，脑海里近2年与她有关的画面，一下子全涌了出来。

他们开始得平淡而又传奇，“你今天好帅”，玩台球后的一句话，他猜到了她芳心暗许；接受他送的德芙巧克力和每日必送的爱心早餐，他知道自己已经俘获美人心。

给自己买衣服都只挑一百多的，给他挑的衣服都是一千多的，“男人就是要穿得好，才能有气质”，他知道她在疼爱自己。

她考虑到他工作忙，自己包办了结婚的一切事务，只是让他打电话订婚宴，他又一次见识到她的贤惠能干、善解人意……

她唯一提出的一个要求是买套房子，“有了房子就有了家，父母才会安心把自己女儿嫁出去。”这是买房子的理由，不是为自己。新房是二手的，里面是原先的主人装修好的，而且面积不大，才60多平方米，家境优越的她却满心欢喜。

“我说家里也没有像样的家具，她就总说没关系，她相信我们在5年后，一定会住上更大的房子。为了我们的未来，她还特地辞去原来的工作，重新找了一家广告公司上班，因为她说，这样我们两个都是做广告的，以后就能自己创业。”

天妒良缘，一切的甜蜜都终止在了1月27日。那天庄华贵约好燕娥下午一起去福清，参加第二天他妹妹的婚礼。期间，她说自己位于漳州丹霞星城的店面有人要租，她和租户约了见个面。

当天中午12时许，通了电话说马上回家，可是等了许久却没见人影。等到再次拨打她电话时，手机已经关机。预感到不对，他赶到现场时，店面门关着，但是没有上锁，进门一看，她早已倒在血泊中。

他当即抱着她冲下楼，并被事后赶到的警车送到医院。抢救了一个小时后，医生宣布，伤者身上被捅了8刀，其中两刀致命，回天乏术。

当晚，他下定决心，爱人虽然离去，但是他要完成她的遗愿，正式迎娶她进门，让她成为他真正的妻子……

→“今天你依旧是我最美的新娘”

昨日早晨八点半，他手捧鲜花和她的单人婚纱照，在亲人的簇拥下上了她之前向朋友借来的豪华敞篷跑车。车子开动了，天下起了蒙蒙细雨，婚车的目的地：殡仪馆。

当天9点45分，两家人在殡仪馆门口合影。大喜的日子，他却独自手捧照片和鲜花，令现场不少人流下了眼泪，新娘的母亲几度昏厥。

当司仪宣布，婚礼仪式正式开始时，他多么希望自己就是童话里的王子，能吻醒沉睡的公主。可是，泪眼模糊中看到的只是隔着玻璃的爱人。

“今天，是我和你缘定今生的日子，虽然今生我们的缘分到此为止，但我依旧会在今天迎娶我最美丽的新娘。在各位亲友面前，我们立下爱的誓言，约定来生再牵手。宝贝，希望我的爱伴着你一路走好，天堂里会有个天使，替我来呵护你！”

新娘的父亲颤抖着将女儿冰冷的双手递给了他。他接过了，他知道，这一刻，她才真正属于他。与岳父紧紧相拥，他早已泪流满面。

这时，他遵照妻子的遗愿又给了岳父岳母一个惊喜。

“为感谢父母的养育之恩，燕娥希望在结婚当天能亲手为挚爱的双亲大人，戴上她亲自挑选的一对手表，为此她还找各种机会偷量父母的手腕大小，亲自去调整表带，就为了在婚礼上给父母一份惊喜，今天就让我来替她完成这个心愿。”戴上手表那一刻，二老已是号啕大哭。在场的人无不落泪。

→“娶她，送她上路”

冰棺里的她紧闭双眼，穿着雪白的婚纱，这是他为她买的。“她原先挑的是红色的婚宴礼服，家里人说，送她上路穿红的不吉利，我就特地为她买了白色的婚纱。”

她的苦心似乎一瞬间白费了。她精心筹备的婚礼，直到最后用上的，寥寥无几，就连她挑的穿在自己身上的，也都要被换掉。这回，终于轮到他来一手操办，娶她，送她上路。

“走在一起是缘分，一起再走是幸福。”婚礼VCR的脚本是他们一起想的，他们有缘走在一起，却无法厮守终身。“宝贝，希望我的爱伴着你一路走好，天堂里会有个天使，替我来呵护你！”

You're always on my mind

All day just all the time

You're everything to me

Brightest star to let me see

You touch me in my dreams

……

现场，《爱的天堂》一直缓缓回旋……

后续

犯罪嫌疑人已全部抓获

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